Trina the one amazon
I seem to fly with a different tail tied to my kite through life in many respects. Then I talk with someone who can’t spend his or her money on this or that because there is that knife edge of separation.
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There is just, to me, an underlying current of animosity.
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I do know some couples who have kept money separate and they are happy and have been for many years. It seems like in many circles a marriage is set up to fail from the beginning. Once I heard that some people keep this all important piece of their pie, their money, separate I just couldn’t seem to let it go. Nor would I want to make that distinction between money brought into a home. I would never have the guts to try to treat my windows. Now don’t get me wrong, I have seen some amazing window treatments and I am duly impressed. My curtains are not window treatments, they are needed for warmth and privacy, not so much for show and tell. Except in my “front room” where they are insulated because it’s cold here in the winter. Most of all, in my head drapes are window treatments.Ĭurtains are what I put up to cover windows, usually something opened and closed with a slide across a rod. Drapes are usually more formal, lined, made of nice fabrics of silk and the like. When I sat down this morning to write I was going to write about the difference in how things are perceived. Oh, it won’t change the world, but! Yes a folded money “but.” But in some way maybe it will bring a much-needed conversation, somewhere out there, to the table to be “cussed and discussed” as my friend would say. I’ve been holding that back for quite some time. No more of this his money her money stuff. Then there are things that need to come together, without separation.
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You, if you are anything like me, will need to peel the crust off of your bread to make a dam to keep that sloppy corn from invading the chicken fried steak on your plate. Like if there is creamed corn on your dinner plate. Separated things keep things, well, separate.